Thursday, November 27, 2008

Thanksgiving


It is hard to believe that this year is almost over. We've had our dinner, ham, turkey, dressing, mashed potatoes, and turtle cheesecake....then we took a little walk through the cemetery. I couldn't believe how many other people were there! I put some poinsettias on my father's grave as well as Nick's grandmother's grave. I don't always remember, but this should be a good day for honoring those that gave us life.


This year my "thankful" list consists of simple things:

not meeting my deductible on my health insurance

my part time job

having too much to eat

the price of gas this week

someone else's house to visit on Thanksgiving

Nick, as always

God's eternal presence


As we enter the season of advent, take care to be mindful of the Christ child. The next couple of weeks are going to be crazy busy, take time to pray and reflect on the greatest gift of all!


God bless.

Friday, November 14, 2008

The year of living FRUGALLY

This has been a long, tiring week. Let’s just say I was more than a little disappointed by Tuesday’s election results, and that’s all I’m going to say about that. Regardless of the winner, I had started a more serious quest for work. Right now I am working as a substitute teacher at our Christian school. I usually work 2-3 days a week, but this week I filled in all week for the same teacher. Since I haven’t worked full time in a year, I am exhausted! Unfortunately with the uncertainty of our economy I hope to be working full time again soon. I am also exploring methods to simplify our lifestyle.

The largest drain on our budget is, of course, housing. Other than utilities, little can be done to reduce this amount. We have two auto loans, one large; one small, but cutting back to one car would only work if I find a job with a set schedule. Other expenditures are fairly inflexible: insurance, taxes, etc., so I’m looking at food since we don’t spent a lot on clothes, and our only entertainment is cable/internet and Netflix. Food is huge and complex. First of all, we love to eat out, and with our often hectic schedule, this is my biggest temptation. Secondly, we both need to lose weight. Choosing healthy, low fat, low carb, yet economical food takes time, education, and diligence. Today, I don’t feel up to the challenge.

Sometimes I would like to return to our previous house just for the lower mortgage payment, but then I remember why we moved. When we got married we bought a house in a good neighborhood. As time passed, more and more of our neighbors moved away and the houses became rental property. No offense to people who rent, but few renters or landlords maintain property as well as owners who live in their houses. We decided to sell and upgrade. Our mortgage payment increased almost fifty per cent; however, we made the right decision because sadly, our old neighborhood looks run down and unkempt. Aside from living on several acres out in the country, everyone must deal with the dynamics of a neighborhood. Since I am not inclined to be a country girl, we must suffer with the mortgage we have.

And so, I continue my quest for a job, coupons, and bargains….remembering that God has always been faithful to provide us with all our needs…..and more.

Saturday, November 8, 2008

HELP

Sometimes I just love my life. I worked a full week this week so today I am doing laundry and cleaning. I am in the livingroom vacuuming while my cat is in the dining room throwing up on the rug!